Self-Control
A silly idea is current that good people do
not know what temptation means. This is an obvious lie. Only those who try to
resist temptation know how strong it is.... A man who gives in to temptation
after five minutes simply does not know what it would have been like an hour
later. That is why bad people, in one sense, know very little about badness.
They have lived a sheltered life by always giving in. ~C.S. Lewis
Self-control is necessary because we are in a
fight with ourselves and the problem lies within our own heart. One of my biggest struggles has always been
to not retaliate when someone attacks me.
It would be so much easier to just say what I think and not worry about
who is hurt by my words or actions.
Self-control is an essential character trait
of the godly person that enables obedience to God’s Word. “If anyone would come after me, he must deny
himself and take up his cross daily and follow me.” Luke 9:23 The literal Greek
meaning of self is “inner strength” and control conveys the idea of allowing
sound judgment to control our desires, appetites, thoughts emotions and
actions. When you put the two together
sound judgment enables us to determine “what” we should do and “how” we should
respond with the inner strength to follow through.
Jerry Bridges in his book “The Fruitful Life”
states it best I think. “Self-control is
the exercise of inner strength under the direction of sound judgment that
enables us to do, think, and say the things that are pleasing to God.”
Emotions play a big role in
self-control. These include anger, rage,
resentment, self-pity and bitterness. If we have an uncontrolled temper this is
a contradiction to our practice of godliness.
An uncontrolled temper damages the self-respect of others, creates
bitterness and destroys relationships. “Better
a patient man than a warrior, a man who controls his temper than one who takes
a city.” (Proverbs 16-32) This describes how a patient man is better
because he fights a daily battle with self-control, whereas a warrior fights to
take the city one day and then moves on to the next battle.
Sound judgment is the beginning of
self-control. In order for us to
exercise sound judgment we must first know where our own weakness is. We are all different and each of us suffers
with self-control issues. Where one
person may struggle with self-pity another may struggle with spiritual
pride. We must look inward to determine
where our lack of self-control lies and the tool we should use to overcome it is
God’s Word.
Prayer for the Day: Heavenly
Father, there are so many times when I lack self-control. I want my actions to be pleasing in your
sight but I know that I must spend time with You. This is the only way I can be more like
You. I am weak but I know with Your help
I can become strong. Please help me in
my weakness.
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